Today, He's bleeding. Tomorrow YOU might.

-JAYANT MUNDHRA

Just imagine, you are on a bike, you are suddenly hit by an SUV, you are heavily injured, lying on the road, crying for help and dragging yourself to the side of the road, BUT NO ONE HELPS YOU….

How would you feel?

Disgusting… Painful… Helpless… Might lose your belief in humanity… Might even curse everyone you see passing by on the road…

But wait, you are cursing the society..!!  You are a part of the society itself… So, why curse it..??  Rather, CHANGE IT. Make a difference. That’s what I call “ THINKING NEW, THINKING WISE”.

On 26^th September 2014, while returning to my college from the city market, an accident happened on the main gate of my college. And, what happened after that is what provoked me to write on this issue.

There were 3 people, lying on the road, bleeding heavily, all three totally unconscious. A huge cluster of people had surrounded them, but none had dared to even pull them aside, get them some water or call an ambulance. I myself shouted for help and then myself and three other people dragged them aside and then an ambulance was called.

Same things can happen to you as well when you are on the road. If you wish that in case of such circumstances people should come forward to help you, well, you should do the same in case someone else is in need.

Moreover, helping someone in the need of the hour is the greatest sense of satisfaction that you can get. By saving  someone’s life you can actually save a whole family. 

                       

Just wearing a BEINH HUMAN T-shirt endorsed by SALMAN KHAN is going to make  no difference if you are not going to actually practice HUMANITY.  So, be a HUMAN in real sense and show that you do care.

Create a better world to live in. 

Think New, Think Wise.

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INSECURITY : There is always a way out of it.

-JAYANT MUNDHRA

This is from my School Days:

I was going good in my studies and all my teachers liked me the most in the class. I was the kind of a kid whose work  were always submitted before time and would never say no to the teachers for any task that they need me to do.

Then, a friend of mine enrolled in my school. We used to be casual friends before then. He was good in studies , was always on time, ready for any tasks, good in sports and a good dancer as well. He was like the new hero of the class whom everyone would surround or goto in case of need.

Here came INSECURITY..

I began feeling insecure that he was in a way better than me. He was taking my place in other people's lives, everyone love him more than they love me. Adding to my pain, GIRLS LIKED HIM TOO....

Now, I had two options, either to hate him, or to befriend him and learn from him and to inculcate his positive aspects into my life.

I chose the second option.
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With time things changed, Insecurity changed into caring, respect and bonding as we are great friends today.

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Insecurity is  nothing but a stupid feeling that someone is snatching away what's yours. It can arise in work, career, studies, love and even friendship.

Insecurity always creates s superficial boundary around you that makes you coated in layers of emotions like hatred, jealousy, anger and gloominess. 

How to tackle it..??

Well, i am no expert in human psychology but as per my personal experiences, Be positive always, how bad the circumstances get, and always try to see the positive aspects of every happening of your life.
For instance, in my story, I tackled my insecurity by taking it as an opportunity to learn from him and gain from his good aspects.

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Life : A Roller Roaster ride

-JAYANT MUNDHRA

What if a person just finds out that GOOGLE is offering hima job with 2 crore package. He/she would be extremely happy and full of joys.

And what if a person finds out that he has lost his job, during the recession period. He/she would be completely shattered. Might even go into depression. Person might even resort to wrong deeds like suicide or criminal activities like thievery,  kidnapping etc.

Life can be highly dynamic where anything can happen. It is a roller-coaster ride with sudden ups and downs and twists and turns that are totally unpredictable. You  never know what life is going to serve you on your platter. What really matters is how are you going to tackle the Lows and handle the Highs of life.

When we achieve a big feat or something great happens to us, we often celebrate really hard and share our happy news with everyone we know, thus increasing our degree of happiness exponentially. 

Then if suddenly something bad happens, the pain and sadness also turnsout to be much large to handle. 

But, one must not bow down to life during such hardships. Rather, we should, stand tall, with all our might and mental preparedness to demolish all the pain and dearth and bounce back to the good times. That’s how champions are born. That’s how leaders are made. That’s how one can really be successful in the long run of life.

The tides of gloom and failure may be higher and stronger than ever, but if the sailor(you) is mentally determined, strong, optimistic and confident then no one can stop his ship(your life)  from sailing high.Moreover, the concept of Highs and Lows in life are the same as our heartbeats. “If there are no ups and downs in our heartbeat, it means we are DEAD”.

Never say never, or give up. Try and try until you succeed. And always remember that, “when the tough gets coming, only the tough gets going”. There may be many hurdles in the path to success. But, if you keep trying, you are definitely going to find the right key to the lock on the door to success, and you will be a Winner in this play of life where we are playing mere parts of several characters created by god.

So, always believe in yourself and keep your confidence intact. Be determined towards your goals, and work hard to achieve them. Tackle all odds and emerge as the ultimate VICTORIAN.

 Create a better world to live in. 

Think New, Think Wise.

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He's a STUD. She's a SLUT. Really!!

-JAYANT MUNDHRA

Whenever you see a guy with a no. of girls around him , or has a lot of girlfriends, or someone who can easily get friendly with girls  you call him a “STUD”. You say that he is cool and dashing. But, if you see a girl with a cluster of male friends or boyfriends, or can get friendly with guys very easily, you call her a “SLUT”.

 Here arises the question..!!

ARE YOU EVEN THINKING ..??

We are all the beings of 21^st century. We are believed to be the most advanced species in the universe. We have moved from stone age to the machine age.We have reached Moon and Mars. We have witnessed advancements in the society like no one else. YET, We can’t see women and men on the same page of the Book of Life. WHY??

Why is there such a disparity in our society towards females that knowingly or unknowingly, we have created certain border lines for women. Why is it so, that on certain parameters, we don’t think about females of our society, as much as we do about men in the society?

Take a simple example, when we see a girl is friendly with a no. of guys, well we don’t take a minute to say that,“R***I hai saali..”.

Really!!   Is that all you need to think before reaching a conclusion that brands someone as a slut. How can we be so judgmental ? How much more narrower can our  thinking can get? How long are we going to keep stooping so low?

It’s a question mark  on us, our society and whole extravaganza about being the Most Advanced Species.

We definitely have a lot to think about ourselves, and sensitize our thoughts and create a blossoming INDIA, a place where not just the sculptures of Maa Durga, but the real women are also respected and worshiped.

 Create a better world to live in. 

Think New, Think Wise.

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Cracking a joke on someone. Think again.

-JAYANT MUNDHRA

What do you think ..  Cracking jokes o others is always fun..??  Well I say, ask the person on whom the joke is being cracked upon. Maybe your thoughts might change. Maybe indirectly you are bullying the other person. Please think wisely before taking any irresponsible steps from where there is no stepping back. After reading what's written below, I hope your thoughts would change.

 

I am not saying that cracking a joke on someone is always incorrect. But, the circumstances must be taken care of.

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Think New, Think Wise.

Its Enough.. Now, lets STOP IT

-JAYANT MUNDHRA

We are counted among the educated few of this developing nation of ours that has had a historical significance for women and the female sex. Either as a sister or a mother, a wife or a daughter, all forms of women have been respected and worshiped in our country’s history.

But today, we say that “we have modernized the society, we have witnessed huge developments”. However, I would like to point out that not all of us in this society have modernized. I think so because on a daily basis, the news that we come across are mostly related to “CRIMES AGAINST WOMEN”. Thus, we might have developed in the physical aspects of life…But we have somewhat lagged behind on the SOCIAL & the MORAL front.

Whether its eve-teasing, staring, stalking or commenting upon a female like “Hey bro, I rate her a ‘9’.” or rapes or the heinous crimes like dowry deaths are all the deeds of lowest order and must not be tolerated by this society of ours.

CAUTION : Today it might be someone elses’ mother, sister or wife. But tomorrow it can be your mother, sister or wife too.

Being an educated youth of the nation, which is expected to have maximum youth population by the year 2030, it is our moral as well as soulfull responsibility to firstly create awareness,among the growing youth of INDIA, and secondly to take action against anyone who is involved in any of the above mentioned ill-practices.

Usually, when a person sees anything such happening, he/she avoids stopping them because he/she feels, “ How am I going to stop them alone? What if I myself get into trouble?”.

Well I got a solution to this problem. A very simple solution.

Suppose you are in a bus where a bunch of guys are teasing a woman. Well either you could stop them on your own. Else, if you feel like you can’t handle the guys on your own, well just ask the person next to you to help you out. Now, your power has doubled. If you still feel that you two are not enough to stand against the guys, well just ask another person next to you. This way you can increase your power against such hooligans and can prevent many such cases that have put this DARK BLACK STAIN on our nation.

Raise your voice,

Create some noise,

And help make this society a better place and help INDIA gain back the image of a GOLDEN BIRD, which is not just about the wealth.