-JAYANT MUNDHRA
This is from my School Days:
I was going good in my studies and all my teachers liked me the most in the class. I was the kind of a kid whose work were always submitted before time and would never say no to the teachers for any task that they need me to do.
Then, a friend of mine enrolled in my school. We used to be casual friends before then. He was good in studies , was always on time, ready for any tasks, good in sports and a good dancer as well. He was like the new hero of the class whom everyone would surround or goto in case of need.
Here came INSECURITY..
I began feeling insecure that he was in a way better than me. He was taking my place in other people's lives, everyone love him more than they love me. Adding to my pain, GIRLS LIKED HIM TOO....
Now, I had two options, either to hate him, or to befriend him and learn from him and to inculcate his positive aspects into my life.
I chose the second option.
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With time things changed, Insecurity changed into caring, respect and bonding as we are great friends today.
Insecurity is nothing but a stupid feeling that someone is snatching away what's yours. It can arise in work, career, studies, love and even friendship.
Insecurity always creates s superficial boundary around you that makes you coated in layers of emotions like hatred, jealousy, anger and gloominess.
How to tackle it..??
Well, i am no expert in human psychology but as per my personal experiences, Be positive always, how bad the circumstances get, and always try to see the positive aspects of every happening of your life.
For instance, in my story, I tackled my insecurity by taking it as an opportunity to learn from him and gain from his good aspects.
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